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Modification | That Pale Girl

Stretching lobes

As you can probably tell I an alternative woman ... So it would come to no surprise to many of you that I have stretched ears. I have been stretching my ears ever since I got them done, the left side I did myself at home and the right my friend Megan did it during school ( please don't do it at home go to a professional piercer and especially one that use's needles) I got my second hole on my earlobes done with a gun and fuck me they hurt !!  It was all sore and red from all the blood rushing to the piercing. (Biggest mistake ever I hate guns ) 

In the Beginning ...
I originally started stretching my ear with a tongue bar (yeah don't ask) and I went from there using a 3 mm taper. Pain wise until i got up to 8 mm it didn't really hurt, which it shouldn't! I usually stretch mine just after coming out the shower as your lobes are more stretchier then. from 4 mm - 8 mm I dead stretched (which is pretty much shoving the tunnel in your ear really) Probably not the best idea but i was young and didn't know better … So from 0g onwards I used a taper. Well, until 12 mm or 1/2 inches where I Very Stupidly I decided that I would silicone stretch, My ears got incredibly sore and the silicone got stuck to my healing lobe that when i took them out it brought the skin with it plus a hell of a lot of blood. In the end I had to cut them out in the end as it hurt so bad, The worst pain I have ever experienced (Don't ever try it , just don't !) 


So Finally 
So after taking my badly sore ears and healing them back (i.e. letting them shrink) I finally got back up to 12 mm or 1/2 inches, Now using tapers i stretched my way SLOWLY may I add up to 16 mm or 5/8 inches which is where I am now, well kind of ... I am now taping my ears up to 20 mm as i brought some beautiful Coconut and Ebony wood (which you will undoubtedly see later on this year when i finally reach my new goal.

Help for sizes for those who do not know *I do not own this photo*


I will also do a How to post later this week and a follow-up as to how my ear is doing with this new process. I also really badly Want to write a post on my modifications, such as my piercings past, present and future alongside tattoos as well. So watch this space as it will be appearing soon !



| My ear with bondage tape around the plug |

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A little update

Recently I have been down over some personal things and its been bringing me down to the point where i didn’t really want to leave my bed or really my bedroom, i kinda was hibernating for Christmas. 
I have been out a few times to see friends and it helped , it really helped as i forgot about all my problems for a short amount of time … until I got home.
It never ever easy when looking for a job either, iv been wanting to get full time work at my current job or looking for new employment, my best mate Kayleigh got a brand spanking new job and I’m so proud of her :3 she really deserves it after all the hell she’s been through so fingers crossed its going to be a bright year for her ;) and free cakes and pastries for me *hint hint if you are reading this :P
On another note Toms always out in London mostly Soho , he’s living the expensive life. God damn i wish all three of us were … one day we shall be living the London life pahaha ( I say this but i would live on the outskirts with all the fields and trees and green grass) 

left to right: Me, Tom, Kayleigh 

I also really wanted to go to Winter Wonderland in London Hyde park (unfortunately to my previous dilemma i haven’t got much money this month so its all going on bills and petrol, this is an adult life well kinda ) I’m still hoping to go just in Jan but i get paid late December so fingers crossed for me. 

Today i went back to work after a while and its beginning to look up, I’m allowed to move departments pending a 12 week trial on my attendance and hopefully with that allowed to get a more full time contract which will be amazing. i have worked for a few companies before and i have not felt as cared for a looked after than i do at this store, i had people being worried about where i was, it felt kinda nice for once as previous job iv had problems and they haven’t bothered to even help, they just toss you aside like your nothing. Despite not liking what times I do mostly, the jobs alright its easy, but the people you work with help ALOT throughout your shift and the dodgy music played over the speakers is a bonus! 

I also finally get to dye my hair blue and keep it , which makes me feel much happier about myself and my appearance, so i can be who i am inside and outside work. Finally things are looking up !


I will be back to my blue self in no time!


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That Pale Girl Ruth :3






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