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Renting Houses | That Pale Girl |

After a long time of doing that growing up thing, I have ripened enough and come to that age where I move out of my parents house. I believed it would be so much more easier than this. Little did I know … You can't live in a bouncy house (sad days!) sigh! my dream home ...





First of all I didn’t realise I had so many belongings from clothing to makeup to hair stuff to just general crap really. Theres so much of it ! aha Plus it dosent help that I have a growing mountain that is blackmilk clothing (but I can’t help that) and shoes you cannot forget the shoes! Iv been rummaging through my old stuff and selling what i don’t need or want. Im sad to see some of it go but I have to move on now. 

To make enough money for the deposit (which is rent rent x30) blimey !! iv been working overtime. Working the shittist of hours to create some extra cash here and there! It tries you the fuck out ! But soon I shall be living the student life aha which is no different. Studying, partying, lectures, being social! ha! 
But who knew how much money went into renting a property as you need the first months rent, the deposit plus any fees you may have to pay to the agency for referencing and looking at your credit history! You also need a good credit history too, so don’t get into dept just yet ;)!

From viewing some properties after only seeing one photo on websites such as Zoopla. Going to view these properties i had an open mind … Some of them are in the most atrocious state iv ever seen. They are dark, dingy and they smell like a cats died in them. I don’t know how people can live like that ??
Another thing we had to go through was rejection. Oh and boy did we get rejected!! As we are sharers some landlords don’t want to have to purchase a extra licence (even though they are given money to make it suitable for sharers by the council to put fire doors and alarms etc.. in) FOOLS!!

We applied for many houses filling in the application only to be rejected, which was so devastating for us all.
This one house which we all really loved and was suitable for every single one of our needs individually was our biggest let down. As we got through after putting our application through, which made us all relax and feel at ease for a while for that only to be thrown out the window by the landlord choosing another application after we paid the fees. Worst feeling ever! (they have offered to give us our money back due to it not being our fault). But phoning up and looking for a place to live leaves me feeling so awkward! I hate phone calls with people I don’t know (i think most people do).
 Ill leave this on a funny note !


We went to view a few properties with this particular estate agents and the bloke they sent was in the wrong job! He shook our hand like a wet fish, he barley even was able to tell us what belonged with the house (if we even had a garage or not etc..) also at another house the tenants showed us around … the house was is such bad condition and the estate agents had been neglecting them that they just ripped into them ! black mould eww !!


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Update 7th May 2015 | ThatPaleGirl |

As iv been growing up I have learned a lot of things that I never thought I would. As a child i used to think the world was all fun and games where you could just take your teddy and zoom off into another world or ask mummy for help! Now I’m nearly 20 and Im almost ready to move out of home I wish even half of what I believed as a child was true.

I also found that friends who are worth your time will stick around, those people you can count on and count on you will be there when you need them. You will also fall out with your ‘friends’ over big and small things even forgetting what it was over but never talking to them again… not my loss aha! or you will just grow apart becoming different people with others.
You will meet new amazing people too ! which is a plus side to losing the old friends. As you are now an adult and not a child your personality has mostly developed and hopefully by now you will know who you are ! Iv found out I’m naturally blue haired, tattoo mad, crazy and colourful ! Who also found her love for photography, modelling and has decided to go to uni to study film. (after the disapproval of my dad who’s finally warmed up to it :3 ).

I have hidden things about my life to my parents. Sex being one that is unspoken of and probably never will be aha ! But also tattoos iv never been brave enough to tell my parents about my tattoos and now i have 9! One of them now being on my arm after i finally braved up and spoke to them about it ! … yet I’m still scared to tell them aha My life. 

I have experienced learning to drive, passing and failing too. But Iv loved driving, even when i was a learner and i had my dad moaning in the back of my head! Iv also experienced my first car crash after joking about it a few minutes before (ironic huh?) which developed my driving experience and scared the shit out of me may i do add ! (oh and both me and passenger were fine and dandy and it was nothing extreme just a little bump and grind). 

Iv also found i have a love for blackmilk clothing and the community the surrounds it! I am going to a meet up in London tomorrow for the catsuit queen Erica who is a gorgeous babe! Im so excited to meet more people as the ones i have meet are so kind, helping and supportive. 

Anyways as far as a update goes I now work Three jobs aha fuck my life right now i know! but its all to move out with my wonderful Samuel. he’s been looking after me and were looking for a house with 2 awesome friends of ours. Soon i may do a house tour lol never been able to do that before so watch this space …
Any how i have to go to work in 15 mins ahh i wish i could just sleep right now though! all part of growing up i guess BOO!!

Heres me and Sam on a drunken night out at the Dirty Donkey 

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And a Happy New Year to you too !! | That Pale Girl


Its that time of year again !

It’s that time of year when people go in the new year I’m going to do this, this and this in the new year. They start to attempt to complete their new years resolutions by signing up for that gym after they said they would lose weight, buying a diet cook book, buying a giant jar to save up all those pennies for that holiday, tattoo, new home, car etc…
People always try to complete them on their own and sometimes they need a push throughout the year, weather that may be a few months in or half way through. 

I think people always try and take on too big of a new years resolution and end up either failing or never completing it or even forgetting about it , So this year I think making more realistic new year resolutions that i will complete because they are what i want right now ever so badly aha

Tattoos

This year I would like to get a few more tattoos, I already have four beautiful tattoos that i love ( I will do a blog post in the future about them ) but all of them are below the waist and can easily be hidden. My parents don’t agree with them nor do they think they are appealing on a woman, I’m unsure what they would think if i was a male but we will never know. So my dad had agreed that when i move out i can get tattoos (unknowing to him i already have them ) So this year I am leaving the nest for Uni. 
I am 100% sure i will be a visible tattooed woman, So this year I want to get a Visible Tattoo, even if it’s small, it would be a step in the right direction for myself. Since this is my body. 




Photography

This year I hope to join a photography group local to me to improve my skills and up my game in photography, I am self taught really as sadly i never got to do it for GCSE’s as sadly it got changed, But nevertheless I can and will improve my skills and hopefully get some of my photographs printed and displayed in a local art gallery. I would also like to get some tips and tricks off other photographers as well to get further with what i do and hopefully get some more experience shooting things i am not comfortable with. I also decided to join a photography blogging challenge ( Photography Blogging Challenge  ) < linked here if you would like to join ) Where a new theme is created for every month and bloggers/photographers share their representation of the theme at the end each month. 



This also rolls over to my other new years resolution

Modelling

I already have a photoshoot lined up with a local photographer, which i am really looking forward too, As i get to play around with my blackmilk collection, which i am totally excited about ! I am also hoping to try out some new styles of modelling and get really stuck in this year unlike last year where i only really did it during the summer as i had the free time, as i had college and work which took up so much of my time. I also hope the future to also get published in a magazine and actually hold it aha its only a dream !



Uni

I also plan to start Uni this year which will be a HUGE step for me, I am still yet to decide where to go as of yet as I’m viewing the Uni’s id like study at later on this year. My best mate Kayleigh is coming with me so she will help me decide in the end. I am going to study film and TV! Which i am ABSOLUTELY looking forward too, I have always been interested in film and i enjoy photography so it is the next step. I get this creative side from my dad as he was working his way up to become set designer but instead took a different career path. So i could get a few tips off him aha, I hope i can get everything sorted in time and all my UCAS from filled in on time as well, So this is why it is my new years resolution so i will actually get it done before it too late!

A New Start !

I am hoping to get a full time job this year just before i start Uni so when I do leave for Uni i will have a bit of money saved up for myself for rent, food, and any equipment i may need. I also hope this year will be great at i started a new relationship in the late months of this year so i am hoping this will work out better than my 2014 relationships, So far he has been wonderful to me and we hope to do many together , with new experiences such as a holiday, trips around the UK , visiting the seaside (fingers crossed), learning new things such as to ride a motor bike for me (Sam is a biker yummy!) 
I also want to try new food , with a new diet hopefully a more healthier option as me and Samuel haven’t been eating the best the past month (we have been Fatties) So i will either have to dig out some new cook books or use the amazing Internet, I will blog about my findings if i create some amazing dishes i think you guys may like.



Please ignore my goofy face !!
Blogging and creating a better blog overall !
In 2014 I started this blog and blogging in general I have around twenty plus plans already this year in my notes which i cannot wait to write, I am also in the process of writing a Lush Box review too, which I am excited to write about as i get to use a Lush box really, as my mum loves lush so i always end up stealing her soap, bath bombs and creams (don’t tell her , i don’t think she’s figured it out yet). I hope to more Outfit Of The Day Posts too so i can show of my photography and my wardrobe too, allowing me to show myself what i can wear to suit my body and what i can wear more often, then give away my clothing that i don’t wear as much or sell it. 
I am also planning to do some super cool ideas with my best mates. Such as shopping on a budget, swapping outfits, dressing each other and days out ! So keep tuned for that throughout the next year 





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Anyways Thank you for reading and Have a Happy New Year, i hope your year will be Amazing!

That Pale Girl 



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